Guys opinion plz=)very much appreciated if you take the time?

okay so was talkin to this guy for about a yr now and we would either talk or text literally every day we met at school i was a senior and he was a junior i already graduated this summer so he is a senior now anywho so after talkin to him for all this time obviously i started to really like him and he would tell me he liked me too we would basically talk like if we were dating he would call me babe or mami stuff like that i would call him babe also...and when we would be on the phone we would stay up until like 4 in the mornin...so i thought he was goin to ask me out sooner or later but after a while i was starting to wonder if he was ever goin to ask me out so i was upfront with him one day and told him to tell me if i was wasting my time with him he said if i was he would tell me and that if he didnt like me that he wouldnt be talkin to me still so we kept talking i got tired of waitin again so i asked him if we were ever gonna officially start datin well he said that he wasnt ready to be in a realationship because i was gonna go away to college(i didnt end up going) and that i was gonna meet new people as in other guys and he wasnt good with long distance at that point i was very dissapointed but kept talkin to him....at school we wouldnt really talk much because we didnt have time between cles but we did have lunch together well he is black and i am mexican so he would be with his friends and i would be with mine im not sayin his friends arent mine but he has this cousin for some reason i think she doesnt like me and thats who he would be with and they are very close like brother ans sister so i wouldnt go up and talk to him cause i felt akward also i wouldnt go up and talk to him while he was with other people because i thought he would think i was being clingy or something but he would ure me that thats not what he would think so out of school we woulndt see each other either i tried a couple of times to hang out with him but he would always have an excuse so i never tried again...also i would think if he really really liked me he would make the effort to try and see me....another thing is i guess i can say he is kind of a freak and he has had before well i havent and he knows i am a virgin he hasent pressured me at all to have but whenever he gets the chance he does bring it up and says that he would like to have with me in the future or whenever im ready i am very sarcastic at times so i just brush it off with sarcasm but ive also told him that i will not have with someone who i havent been in a serious relationship with and that i am sure of...well im getting to the point now...about a couple of months ago a new girl came to school she was going out with his friend they broke up after a while and i guess they started talkin all of the sudden...my friends told me that he was at her apt at night(they know cause they are neighbors and saw his car) i didnt think nothin of it so i didnt say anything to him but then other people started tellin me other stuff about him and her that he would go see her and give her rides home and had pics of her as his wallpaper on his phone(btw i wasnt goin around askin people to tell me what they knew about them people would jus tell me cause they knew about me and him) neways i got tired of all the gossip so i texted him and told him i wished him good luck with his gf....he said that nothin was goin on between them "obviously" and that they were jus friends but i had noticed a change in him cause he wouldnt text or call as much as he used too i knew it had to do with her so i didnt text or call either but whenever he would text me he would ask why i hadent texted him and i would say because he hadent either(he is not the type to begg)...i was very angry because i knew he was lying about her so i didnt talk to him for a couple of days then he texted me asking why i was so mad at him then we jus had this big argument i guess i got over because again i am not his gf and he does have the rite to be friend with whoever(well so can i but i dont have friends with benifits)well she is very good friends with his cousin the ones that doesnt like me or better said care about me so she would always follow him and hang around with him and her and their friends so because of this i think that they got close in the way that me and him never got to because we wouldnt hang out in person outside of school...so i was getting my mind and heart ready for the worst(i kno that sounds corny ha)i wouldnt look at his myspace because he has her as second on his top that would irritate me cause he doesnt have me that we've been talkin forever i have to say that hurts in some way but i would be sarcastic and say stuff about her bein up there and not me he would say that he was gonna put me on there as well.. i told him not to because it had to be cause he wanted to not me tellin him to....so the other day i looked at his page and saw that his status is "IN A RELATIONSHIP" this